Below you will find a list of our most frequently asked questions about Tawonga’s B’nai Mitzvah program.

When does registration begin?

Enrollment for the 2020 cohort of the Tawonga Bar, Bat & B’nai Mitzvah Program is currently full, though you are welcome to register now and we will put you on our waiting list.

Registration for the 2021 cohort begins in November.

  • Families who were canceled from a 2020 program can register during priority registration on Wednesday, November 18
  • Families who attended, waitlisted or canceled from 2019 can register early, on Wednesday, December 2
  • Registration opens to the general community on Wednesday, December 9

During the registration process you will be prompted to make a $250 non-refundable deposit. Once you submit your registration request, our registrar will send you a confirmation email within two business days letting you know your registration status.

Please contact Meg Adler, our Program Manager at 415.543.2267 or at meg@tawonga.org if you need any assistance.

Does my child need to know how to read Hebrew to participate?

No! Tawonga’s B’nai Mitzvah program is designed to fit your child’s unique service and we realize this will look different for each and every family.

During our kitot (classes), all participating youth will learn the melodies of prayers using Hebrew to English transliteration and spend time understanding these prayers through creative learning processes. We will also provide the Hebrew to English transliteration of Torah and Haftorah portions, as well as the English translation. Tawonga also offers online Hebrew classes. More information will be available in the spring for new classes.

Why did Tawonga decide to offer a B'nai Mitzvah program?

Our community asked for it! The unaffiliated Jewish community is growing, and parents are seeking pathways for their children and entire family to meaningfully engage with the Jewish community.

25% of Tawonga families are not affiliated with a synagogue, and this program is designed for this very community in mind. That said, we are also open to working with all families regardless of synagogue affiliation. We believe that this program will allow children to “take Tawonga home” and provide an opportunity for youth to feel the same enthusiasm and connection to Judaism that they feel at Camp, all year round!

We fully support our many campers who choose to become a B’nai Mitzvah through their synagogue and have created this program as an avenue for those looking for something different.

Where will the B’nai Mitzvah services be held?

We are thrilled to offer various options for your child’s B’nai Mitzvah service!

Option 1:

A service in the Bay Area. We recommend a park or other outdoor space, but you are free to choose any location in the Bay Area that works for your family.

Option 2:

A service during one of Tawonga’s Family Camp Weekends. Email meg@tawonga.org if you are interested in this option!

How often will the kitot (classes) meet?

Students will participate in seven classes per year. These classes, held on weekends, will be led by experienced and trained Tawonga staff, will incorporate interactive activities and will cover a thought-provoking curriculum.

In addition, as safety allows, students and families will join a family Shabbat, havdallah and a family hike either in person or in small socially distanced groups. We will also hold two shabbaton weekends either in-person or virtually as safety allows.

What will an average class look like?

Each class will meet seven times per year. These dynamic programs, taught by premier and experienced Tawonga staff, will include engaging discussions about issues important and timely for teens, creative methods to understand prayers, team-building exercises, music, community guest-speakers and more! Participants will also have two weekend shabbatons and family engagement opportunities, either in-person or virtually as safety allows.

How is this different than a traditional B'nai Mitzvah at a synagogue?

Our goal in creating this program is to give teens and families who might otherwise not engage in B’nai Mitzvah studies the opportunity to do so in a non-traditional format. Our program will include experiential and outdoor learning (retreats, hikes, Tawonga-style lessons and songs) and will emphasize building community and positive self-growth.

Since 1925, Camp Tawonga has served as a leader in Jewish camping, honing our approach to character development and positive self-growth in children and teens. At this time, we are so thrilled to apply this holistic model to B’nai Mitzvah study for our community.

How much does this program cost?

Cost of $3,300 per Year Includes:

  • Seven kitot (classes) per year
  • All experiential-learning curriculum. Year 1 focuses on Jewish blessings and values. Year 2 focuses on Torah interpretation and inheriting a tradition
  • Retreats (two per year)
  • Education and song leading from premier staff
  • Five parent learning sessions per year
  • Monthly Family Shabbats, Family Havdalahs, and other family engagement events
  • Mitzvah Project guidance and preparation (Year 2)
  • Prayer coaching in transliteration
  • D’rash (sermon) preparation (during Year 2 only)
  • Mentorship opportunities
  • Simcha coaching and support from Program Manager
  • Planning and preparation for the B’nai Mitzvah Service
  • Optional use of our Torah, Siddurim, Kippot, and Aron Kodesh (ark for the Torah).
  • Student Journal (one for each year)
  • Family guidebook with contact information for hebrew tutors, service leaders and song leaders
  • “So You’re Having a Simcha” a guide to planning your child’s bar, bat or b’nai mitzvah
  • Mitzvah Project Planner
  • Your own copy of the Torah!

Additional Expenses:

  • B’nai Mitzvah service & song leaders ($800-$2000 depending on location and leader)
  • B’nai Mitzvah hebrew tutoring
  • B’nai Mitzvah service venue

Where will the kitot (classes) meet?

Our two kitot meet in their respective locations: either San Francisco or the East Bay.

In addition to our initial B’nai Mitzvah Kick-Off Orientation, students will participate in two retreats located either virtually or at the NatureBridge Marin Headlands site as safety allows. Students and families will also have the opportunity to join three local family events (Shabbat, Havdalah and one other event in the Spring) with their respective kita.

What is the structure of the program?

Our B’nai Mitzvah experience is a two-year program rooted in experiential and outdoor learning. Starting in their 6th grade year*, students will participate in programs that incorporate social justice learning, Jewish values, understanding prayers, communication skills, common teen issues and more. In their second year, participants will spend time interpreting their Torah portion and receiving mentorship from a Tawonga volunteer to write their d’rash (sermon).

*This program is geared towards 6th graders, so that by the time participants have completed this two-year program, the majority of them have turned 13. Please call our Program Manager at (415) 543-2267 if you have any questions about these guidelines.

Does my child need be a current Camp Tawonga camper or alum to participate?

Absolutely not! We welcome any student and their family who is looking for an opportunity to become a B’nai Mitzvah outside the traditional method.

Who is this program for?

This program is designed for any students looking for an innovative and progressive B’nai Mitzvah program that explores the boundaries of tradition to provide students and their families with a deep and meaningful experience. It is perfect for families with busy schedules who desire a flexible approach to exploring spirituality and this rite of passage.

Children enrolled in our B’nai Mitzvah program should be open to discussing ideas, becoming a part of a community, exploring the outdoors and learning more about social justice. Research shows that experiential learning is a successful and proven way to absorb new ideas and information in a way that encourages lifelong learning. We are excited to utilize this method to make your child’s B’nai Mitzvah a positive and memorable experience.

We are confident that by the end of participating in this program, participants will feel more comfortable engaging with spirituality and Judaism, and enter into their teenage years more inquiring, confident and socially aware.

This is a two-year program for incoming 6th graders*. In order to reap the many benefits of our two-year program, we encourage B’nai Mitzvah services for this first cohort take place between January and December.

*This program is geared towards 6th graders, so that by the time participants have completed this two-year program, the majority of them have turned 13. Please call our Program Manager at 415.543.2267 if you have any questions about these guidelines.

When will this program start?

We will welcome our sixth cohort of 6th graders in the Fall of 2021. This is a two-year program.

Still Have Questions?

For additional questions about the program, please contact Meg Adler, Program Manager, at meg@tawonga.org or 415.543.2267.

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